Accept your body for whatever it is right now. Even if you want to lose weight, try to make peace with your size right now and move forward from here. While it is good to pursue a healthier way of living, getting down about your weight isn't attractive, and unhappiness doesn't motivate changes (at least not healthy ones).

#1 You may think that testosterone is what makes men real men, but actually more testosterone makes men less aggressive. It is in fact a lack of testosterone that increases aggression, almost as much as criticising their football team!

#2 Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!

"You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never lose." - Jo Courdert

"He who knows others is wise. He who knows himself is enlightened." - Lao Tzu